Today, I’m going to provide you with three tips on how to get your ex back. A lot of people trying to find ways to get that person back they feel they lost and let slip out of their hands, and they want to reconcile things. I want to give you what you looking for. I want to help you in achieving that goal of getting your ex back. Here are three important tips if you want to make this happen.
Tip number one.
Correct the issue that led to the breakup in the first place. Listen, there’s no factor in attempting to obtain your ex back if the same concern that broke you 2 up exists. Whether that exists within you, within them, in the dynamic of the relationship. One-way or another, you have to correct and resolve that. Because even if you successfully get them back without fixing those things. You’re most likely to be headed for an additional break up. There’s no point if you can’t get to the root of the issues and correct them so take time.
Again, if it’s an issue within yourself let’s say, for example, you have insecurity issues due to past relationships. We’ll listen, start to get some healing. Go see a counselor, go see a coach. See someone so that you can sit down and unpack these things and work through them so that when you come back, you can come back more confident, more secure within yourself. Therefore you can increase your chances of getting that person back.
Tip number two
Now, that makes catch you by surprise but let me help you understand what I’m saying. I see so many people wallowing in misery, trying to get their ex back. Essentially trying to pity party their ex into taking them back. Trying to use sympathy and I can’t live without you and all these things. Listen, to a certain extent, there’s nothing wrong with expressing your emotions and expressing your deep love for them, but it makes you look weak, to be honest with you. It looks bad. Who wants to be around that negativity
or that misery that you’re exuding? Granted it’s stemming from the fact that you don’t have them so you may think that makes them feel better or that would warm their hearts so to speak to you. To some degree, it can, however, when you exude positivity, confidence, happiness, it draws them to you, and makes them say, “Damn, maybe I need to have them back in my life.”
“Maybe I missed out.”You have to give them something to desire and so finding your happiness will create or will increase your chances of them wanting to be back with you or willing to be back with you. Don’t stay focused on what you don’t have. Don’t stay focused on the fact that they’re not with you right now. Obtain focused on what you can do to enhance your life.
The side effect of this is that if by some chance you don’t get them back–I know your goal is to get them back, but if you don’t get them back. Well, at least you would have used your time wisely and set yourself up for great things to come. Whether that be continuing as a single person or when a new relationship presents itself, so work on you, find your happiness. Now, before we get to
Tip number three
I got to say something and you’re not going to like this. Here is the reality. You may not need to get back with your ex. The reality is that you’ve got to be honest with yourself about
was this person truly the best person for you? Was there an authentic connection? Before you go diving into trying to find all the ways to get them back make sure you need to get back with them.
You should be with them and they are someone you can move forward within life and create a great, happy relationship. Again, I know that’s not what you want to hear. But it’s my job to tell you the truth that you need to hear,
and some of you don’t need to get that ex back. But let’s say they are that person for you. You can have a happy relationship with them and there is a connection.
Here is tip number three. You’ve got to be patient. Listen, Rome wasn’t constructed in a day. I don’t know why that came to me just now, but the fact of the matter is you’ve got to be willing to trust the process
and the timing of things. You can’t force your ex to want you or to be with you when you’re ready. You got to understand that they’ve got to go through some things as well
and it may take time. Again, refer back to number two on this list. Find your happiness in the meantime. Work on you in the meantime but be patient and yes, it can happen
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